At a young age, my
family and I moved quite a bit. Coming from a low class home taught me that I
had to adapt as necessary to prosper. Money was an issue and because of that we
relocated to Arizona. My parents acquired reasonable paying jobs and my older
brother and I were enrolled in a new school. This school was enormous. It held
students from kindergarten to seniors in high-school and classes were year
round. English is my second language and it was challenging for a five
year old to catch up in the middle of the school year what all the other
students had already learned. I was at the bottom of my class and things were
not getting any better. Shortly after moving there, my mother was
expecting with my younger sister. On account of her pregnancy, and not having
family around for moral support, she chose to go back to California; my brother
and I were thrilled by the news. At last, decent weather to live in and we were
going to once again see our grandparents. We fast-forward to first grade in
California; I was exceling in class and my teacher suggested testing me to be
placed in the G.A.T.E program. I had no understanding of what was going on; nonetheless
I went along with it. I passed the test and was accepted in the program.
Suddenly, I'm an average student surrounded by students like me. By fifth grade
all the talk of my intellect caught up to me. My pretentious attitude was
reflected in my school work. Personally, at this point I think a bit of
discipline might have set me straight, but I never got it and the rebellious
attitude commenced. Perhaps the problems at home were affecting me and I was
simply lashing out. Losing my second-grade best friend and my closest cousins within
a year, might have been too much for a young child to process. Nevertheless, the
attitude stuck and I learned to slack off and pass my curriculum's. In high-school
it slightly started to change. I had discovered something to inspire me to acquire
respectable grades and attend school for once. Given, it was my senior year, yet
I managed to graduate. In all honesty, I had no faith I would thrive.
Currently I am on disability and because
of the situation I have decided to pursue my academic career. I am too young to
be on disability, and due to an ongoing case I won’t talk about this online, but
believe me when I say that I have never been in so much persistent pain in my
entire life. All this has made me reflect on what I had accomplished thus far
in my lifetime. I was working a blue collar job, working hard on a daily basis,
living paycheck to paycheck, and all on my own. I looked around me; people I
attended grade school with had already received their bachelor's degrees. I
knew it was time for a change and as a result I started my long academic
journey. I got off my crippled butt and went in to speak to a counselor. After
a year away from school, everything appeared so different. I had to redo a lot
of the enrollment process, it was nerve-racking, and it seemed to all played
out against me. Nonetheless, I stuck to it and I am now a full-time student. I
am aware that it won’t be easy, I don't expect it to be, but I am now willing
to put in the work to achieve my goal.
In the future I
plan to attend law school, pass the BAR exam, practice law, and fulfill a
promise I made to my grandfather. First is first, I aim to transfer to
CSUN and acquire my bachelor’s in business administration. Not to certain yet
as to what law school I would prefer to attend, however in due time after some
research I will decide. Working in a prestigious law firm is my ultimate objective,
but if that intervenes with the time spent with my children, I shall settle for
a minor practice. I intend on getting married. If possible, after I am finished
with my academics. Having children is a no brainier to me; I want them to carry on
my legacy. I believe two will be just fine; after all I won’t be giving birth
to them. Gender is no issue to me. I simply see it as a gift from god. In my
latter days, I would like to enjoy the comforts that the country has to offer,
and if possible travel the world. I see no better way to spend your last days
than by the side of your companion and enjoying what this life has to offer.
You seem to have thought about your early years a lot and learned from them as well. I love your last sentence. I agree!
ReplyDeleteI also come from a low class family. it was hard growing up with one income for five people so I learned how to budget at a early age. Good luck on becoming a lawyer.
ReplyDeleteGrowing up in the manner that you did during your childhood is never easy on anybody. Every situation you're met with, every change, adds to the growing rebelliousness that eventually starts effecting you're education and other aspects of your childhood and teenage years. You seem to have risen out of this phase in a very positive way, though!
ReplyDeleteCongrats on returning back to school too! It's never too late to come back and get an education, in my opinion.
As for your future, I really hope it goes at least mostly the way you plan it! I'm sure you'll reach your goals if you continue to push towards them.
I can relate to you especially on money issue and going back to school. I like how motivated you are now. Good luck in the near future.
ReplyDeleteYou really experienced a lot in your early child hood and you still have a positive attitude. I love that despite your set back in life you still had a goal and are motivated to reach it, no matter what. Stay positive and never give up on your dream!
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