My full name is Jesus E. Sapiens, but my friends
call me Sapiens or Sapes. The nickname originally started in eighth-grade in
Mrs. Ramirez first period Physical Education class. She was a sport fanatic and
coaching was in her blood, because of which she called several students by
nicknames she had designated to them. She told me she liked the name and
enjoyed pronouncing it and asked me to get used to it as she would no longer
refer to me by my first name. It shadowed me to high-school where I played
football. One of my previous classmates whom attended eighth-grade with me,
also decided to play ball. The coach over heard him calling me by my last name
and it stuck. From that point on, the only names my teammates ever called me
where either Sapes or Sapiens. To them, that was my only name and when I introduced
myself to a new person they would correct me and say “his name is Sapiens, not
Jesus excuse him”. The only sets of people to ever call me by my first name
were my family and girls. Whenever I introduced a girl into the group and they overheard
her calling me Jesus, they would go senseless. “Who are you talking to? We don’t
know any Hey-Zues!” Now that I think of it, it’s amusing how far others would
go to preserve my nickname; after all it was my nickname not theirs. My last
name comes from the Latin word Sapiens meaning wise. You might have also heard the
term Homo sapiens, meaning the species we originated from. Yes I have
encountered people in my life time attempt to tease my last name and all I reply
with is; “do you even know what Homo sapiens is? Do you even know what sapiens
means for that matter?” and most often than not, they wouldn't
know. I’d explain to them that Homo sapiens is the species from which we originated, and
sapiens was a Latin word that meant wise. I felt the need to defend my last
name and carry it high because my father and his father did so. Carrying my
name high and being proud of it was something I have, still to this date, that
connects me to my roots, to my family. Hearing it over the intercom on those Friday-nights
were the best feeling; I felt I was making my family proud. I was taught that a
man’s legacy is his last name. You could have not accomplished much in a world
scale, yet if you managed to keep your last name going, your legacy would carry
on. All in all I am proud of being a Sapiens, and I will gladly and proudly carry
the last name, passing it to my children and so on. Many people change their
last names and not necessarily for marriage purposes, mainly because their past
has affected them in a negative way; by changing their names, they feel some sort
of escape from their past life. To them it is easier to forget what they have endured.
Personally, my life has not been an easy one, nevertheless I am grateful. Due
to those life lessons, I am the person I am today and I wouldn't change that
for anything.

I think your names Jesus and Sapiens are cool. I like the meaning of Sapiens, which means Wise. Nice!
ReplyDeleteOne of my best friend's name is Jordan Sapien. We've also called him "Sapien" or "Sapes" for as long as I can remember, I'm glad you defend your last name and carry it with such pride.
ReplyDeleteI really love and respect the passion that you have for your name. I think it is important to carry your name high and proud no matter what your past held. I also really like how your name relates to Homo Sapiens, mostly because I love science!
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